GFE

   I mentioned in a previous post that I went home with a dancer from Mandarin Club for a night of fun and frolic.  It was so enjoyable and memorable that last night I returned for more.

I enjoyed my first time with her, but I’ve got to say that last night was even better.  This girl does a better job pretending to be my girlfriend than most girlfriends I’ve ever had!

Once again she stayed long time (overnight) rather than just an hour and racing home.  I like that.  But the more compelling parts of the whole experience include the fact that this girl LOVES kissing.  Long langourous kisses lasting 15 or 20 minutes with lots of teasing and toungue action, and she’s sensitive to my touch. 

She responded to everything, whether it was a light massage, playing with her nipples or licking her clit.  She builds slowly, but comes strongly when it’s time.  Over two nights we’ve had sex six times, and the same thing has happened every time she’s come…. her right leg starts moving up and down (almost reminding me of a dog trying to scratch fleas).  It’s pretty funny — I’ve never seen a girl do that before.

When we’re not having sex, she likes to cuddle and caresss.  This morning I woke up and started working at my desk while she was sleeping.  She got up, took a shower and came back in her towel, sat on my lap and started kissing me and hugging me.  It had that “honeymoon” feeling; like being in love.

I know it’s not real.  She’s a working girl, and that its all par of her job, but  I tend to think you get one of three types of experience when you pay a girl for sex:  [A] PSE (porn star experience) [B] GFE (girl friend experience); or [C] STARFISH (She just lays there without moving and takes whatever you give her).

Of the three, the GFE is the one that I think is most enjoyable and most difficult to find. 

I think the reason I really fell in love with Thailand when I first came here was that the first three working girls I hired (and indeed, most of the girls I went with while I was here) gave me great girlfriend experiences.  They stayed long-time, they kissed and cuddled, and we went places besides my hotel and did things like shopping, movies, bowling and feeding birds in the park.  All of the enjoyment of having a girlfriend, with none of the commitment.

Over the past year and a half, I’ve had two actual Thai girlfriends.  Each lived with me, and came with as much baggage as every other permanent relationship I’ve ever had.  For a long time I got away from the reason I came here.  I didn’t come here for love or long term commitment.  I came her for sex, fun and short term encounters. 

With the girl from Mandarin Club I feel like I’m getting back to my ‘roots’, remembering the reason I came to Bangkok, and how I want to live my life here.  Denial, illusion, and casual relationships — this is what I want in my life — and the Mandarin Club girl is giving it all to me.