I was like then wham, next thing you know your bathroom is full of shampoo products and your fridge – that just used to hold beer and water, is now full of chilli paste and other crap.

And then you have to get another TV cos she wants to watch some crappy thai moive during the Chelsea game……

She told me over the weekend that she’s gonna take on a second (part time) job to get a bit of extra money. (She doesn’t get any cash from me — in fact she often pays for lunch or dinner when we go out)

She’s always been the type to take as much overtime as she can get, so a second job should mean that I’ll see her only once a week or so. I think she was trying to squeeze in as much “werewolf time” as she could ahead of the second job kicking in.

I’m planning to see another girl for dinner tonight, and maybe a little desert at my place after, so the snuggler may be feeling the pain a bit this evening, but I won’t know til I see how things go with the other girl.

For those who were present on Halloween and want to know the outcome of the costume contest, the girl you voted for came in 2nd place, one vote shy of the winner. I feel vaguely guilty because I voted for a different (third) girl on the night, so probably cost our friend a share of the first place prize. Ah well….

Presumably you’re trying to do the noble thing by waiting to offload the snuggler onto someone half-decent before resuming your usual pace?
I guess the alternative is to drop her like a stone and wear the pain for a couple of weeks.
At least by waiting to offload her you’ll keep open her door to the farangworld. By dumping her without a suitor in the wings waiting to takeover the show it’ll be tougher for her to find a way back in.
At least you’re in the perfect position – a constant stream of fresh bait stopping by every other day to have a look. Someone’s got to bite soon.
If anybody’s listening out there, I can vouch for the snuggler as a superb lass – the perfect good girl for a bargirl-jaded expat.